some thoughts on motherhood, marriage, learning to love my own face in the mirror, wondering about the lady in the tangerine coat in the bean aisle at the market, writing - the usual suspects.
Friday, April 22, 2011
I Have Never Missed
When it's over, it's over, and we don't know
any of us, what happens then.
So I try not to miss anything.
I think in my whole life, I have never missed
the full moon
or the slipper of its coming back.
or a kiss.
Well, yes, especially a kiss.
- Mary Oliver
Friday, October 8, 2010
Married To Amazement
When it's over, I want to say: all my life/ I was a bride married to amazement/ I was the bridegroom, taking the world into my arms.
from When Death Comes by Mary Oliver
Friday, June 25, 2010
Thank You, Mary Oliver
Some Questions You Might Ask
Is the soul solid, like iron?
Or is it tender and breakable, like
the wings of a moth in the beak of the owl?
Who has it, and who doesn’t?
I keep looking around me.
The face of the moose is as sad
as the face of Jesus.
The swan opens her white wings slowly.
In the fall, the black bear carries leaves into the darkness.
One question leads to another.
Does it have a shape? Like an iceberg?
Like the eye of the hummingbird?
Does it have one lung, like the snake and the scallop?
Why should I have it, and not the anteater
who loves her children?
Why should I have it, and not the camel?
Come to think of it, what about the maple trees?
What about the blue iris?
What about the little stones, sitting alone in the moonlight?
What about roses, and lemons, and their shining leaves?
What about the grass?
- Mary Oliver